Saturday, February 26, 2011

LOVE OR LIMERANCE...???!

The love that you feel may not be the real love. There is one other state of feeling called LIMERANCE. There is much differance between Love and Limerance.

Limerance is the psychological state of deep infatuation. It feels good but rarely lasts. Limerance is that first stage of mad attraction whereby all the hormones are flowing and things feel so right. Limerance lasts, on average, six months. It can progress to love. Love mostly starts out as limerance, but limerance doesn't always evolve into love..

Love is a learned skill, not something that comes from hormones or emotion particularly. If you don't learn the skills of love you virtually guarantee that you will be depressed, not only because you will not be connected enough but because you will have many failure experiences..

Learn good communication skills.
They are a means by which you
develop trust and intensify
connection. The more you can
communicate the less depressed you will be because you will feel known and understood..